I am old enough to wish that I could forget certain parts of my life. Old enough to grieve certain losses, to mourn the demise of unfulfilled dreams, and to lament life’s inescapable disappointments. But what if the erasure of someone’s life is due not to avoidance but to a failing memory? Such is the […]
Meadow Rue Merrill
Faith Notes: 5 tips to reduce costs while increasing health
Several months ago, I found myself in the unenviable position of needing to buy a vehicle. After nearly 210,000 miles, my reliable 2009 Dodge Caravan (affectionately dubbed “The Rust Bucket”) had failed an inspection. To repair it would have cost twice what it was worth. So with only a few options, I bought a five-year-old […]
Faith Notes: Overcoming the Giant Despair
One of my greatest joys as a parent is daily reading aloud to my children – a practice I’ve maintained for more than 25 years. As eager, wide-eyed parents, my husband, Dana, and I began reading Winnie-the-Pooh to our oldest son, Judah, when he was just two months old, not because we thought he’d enjoy […]
Faith Notes: When our world is broken
“It seems that we are awfully expendable to you,” I prayed one morning this past week, thinking of the catastrophe unfolding in Ukraine. And as sometimes happens, in response an image came to my mind: Christ on the cross. It is hard to argue with God and win. For as much as we may feel […]
Faith Notes: Feeling burned out?
I am clearly trying to juggle too many things: Lord of the Flies, driving the squirrels from my attic (which are chirping as I write), completing my M.Ed. in Literacy, getting dressed, walking the dog, overseeing the endless cycle of laundry-meals-and-household happenings and writing this column, which I turned in late. In other words, I […]
Faith Notes: The soul of an old piano
How my mother paid for the old piano is somewhat of a mystery. With a fresh leg of lamb? A pair of newborn kids? In trade for my pony? One thing is certain, I started playing piano around age nine – later than my farm-country peers whose fingers zipped up and down the keys at […]
Faith Notes: What child is this?
If you really want to discover how much (or how little) you understand a subject, try teaching it to middle-schoolers. Like the three different ways verbals can be used in a sentence. Or first-person, second-person and third-person point of view. Or the doctrine of the Holy Trinity. In addition to teaching 7th-10th grade English at […]
Faith Notes: For those who mourn
This past week brought fresh waves of grief to our nation and to our local community. Even as many families gathered around candle-lit tables and held hands to give thanks, other families were in darkest mourning for those whose hands they will never hold around a holiday table again. And what do we do with […]
Faith Notes: Keeping gift giving simple
When I saw boxes of candy canes and foil wrapped Santas lining the shelves of my grocery store one week before Halloween, I wasn’t surprised. There are many signs of how far society has fallen from what was once considered sensible. And yet, I thought, have we really come to this? Blitzing through our days […]
Faith Notes: Seven steps to manage the stress of caregiving
A news story on NPR this week featured Kitty Eisele, the host of “Demented,” a podcast about caring for her elderly father. She mentioned that one in five American adults currently provides unpaid care for an elderly or disabled family member. Having been in that position once before, I found myself temporarily in it again […]