PORTLAND – Richard “Ricky” Craig Thayer, 58, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Sunday, Nov. 13, 2022. He was born on July 8, 1964, the sixth child in a large family of seven children, to Robert E. Thayer and Eleanor A. Thayer in South Portland.

Ricky grew up in the Clifford Street neighborhood of South Portland. Their home was full of kids and so was the entire neighborhood. There was never a dull moment! Ricky enjoyed lots of fun with friends. He loved going to Camp Big Enough on Highland Lake and Thanksgiving at Aunt Myrtle’s, which created many special childhood memories for Ricky and us that the family will cherish forever.

Ricky attended South Portland schools. He was diagnosed with mental illness in his late teens. As a result of his illness, he had many ups and downs, but through it all, he had the love and support of his family. He lived many happy years with his parents. He was especially loved and cared for by his mother, whose love knew no bounds.

After his parents passing, he lived a couple of years with brother, Joey, where he enjoyed being part of Joey’s crew of buddies! As his medical needs became more demanding, we were fortunate to find an incredibly supportive group home. He had his own apartment at the Wall Street residence that became his home away from home. He received care, friendship and compassion from Earth angels Rinada, Molly, Patrice, Edward and the two Emilys. He had a special friend in his neighbor, Bart, who was always there for him. Ricky had his weekly visits from his two loving sisters, Debbie and Pattie. Debbie would bring him homemade meals and Pattie would take him out on special adventures to see the ocean and the lighthouses. There was always a stop for take-out on the way. Ricky loved his food! Rinada especially would go above and beyond for Ricky. They had a special bond that helped him tremendously in his life. The family will be forever grateful for the love and compassion she gave Ricky. He had a special place in her heart of gold.

He was a loving soul with undeserved struggles who fought mental illness with grace. He was adored by those who took the time to know him. Forever he will be in our hearts.

He was loved and cared for by many and he knew it. One of his biggest struggles was communicating, however, he was very clear about telling us “ I love you”; especially his sisters, who loved him like only sisters can.

A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday, Nov. 18 at Hobbs Funeral Home in South Portland. To offer online condolences, please visit http://www.hobbsfuneralhome.com.