


“After he was missing, we kept getting letters back we’d sent to him, marked ‘MIA,’” his sister Margaret recalled on Monday.
Each letter reopened the wound of not knowing, of wondering, of longing to know the answers. Years later, his parents and his brother Clifford died, still not knowing the fate of their son and brother.
Then, while at an MIA conference in Washington, D.C., in 2002, his sisters received a packet containing the information their family had sought for more than 50 years.
On May 18, 1951, Wormwood was among 22 men from his unit who were captured or listed as killed in action or missing in action.
Wormwood was among those captured and marched to North Korea with other prisoners of war. It is the family’s understanding that the men were marched about 70 miles.
Wormwood was weak and ill with dysentery, so his fellow prisoners helped him keep up until he could go no further, Margaret said. He was escorted from the column and not seen again. Margaret said one witness reported hearing a shot.
The military had had information about what happened to Wormwood since 1953, according to Joe Doiron of the Great Works Foundation Fallen Warriors Project, which helped secure a bronze plaque honoring Wormwood for the family burial plot. No one knows why it wasn’t revealed to the family.
On Monday, Margaret, Noreen and Robert joined with folks from the Fallen Warriors Project to honor their brother at a ceremony at the family plot in Oakdale Cemetery, where the plaque had been laid. Vases of fragrant spring lilacs and other flowers graced the headstone of his parents.
Sanford Junior High School student Angela Suresis, a member of the school’s Adopt a Grave program and the school band, led the service. She told of Wormwood’s story, and announced a wider project to honor all Sanford and Springvale veterans who died in the Korean War, similar to a World War II project conducted in 2015.
Banners bearing the veterans’ likenesses will be hung along Main Street in the lead-up to Memorial Day, honoring Wormwood along with Wilfred Michaud, Paul Bergeron, Robert Mllington, Roger Collette, Donald Davis, Ralph Baker and Robert Conley.
But that’s to come later. On Monday, it was time to finally give Wormwood the military ceremony he was due.
Sanford High students who are members of the U.S. Navy Junior ROTC program based at neighboring Massabesic High School presented the colors. A color guard provided a three-gun salute.
Students from the Adopt a Grave program – who were spending the day cleaning gravestones and planting flowers at World War II and Korean soldiers’ graves at area cemeteries – stood by silently as Pastor Todd Bell led the simple service. Veterans of World War II and ensuing wars stood, hands on hearts, in respect for one of their own.
“We are gathered here to give honor where honor is due,” said Bell. “He gave the ultimate sacrifice. We tip our hat today for this courageous American. To Richard Wormwood and all the other brave men and women of our military, we say a resounding, ‘thank you.’”
Student Eve Kruger sang “God Bless America.”
Students Kyle Gagne and James Cote played “Taps.”
The family had hoped, one day, to secure their brother’s remains, but that was not to be. North Korea is not of a mind to allow searches.
As the service concluded, family members wiped away tears. Robert Wormwood plucked a blossom and placed it on the plaque laid in memory of his brother.
“It’ s nice to have this here,” Robert said.
— Senior Staff Writer Tammy Wells can be contacted at 324-4444 (local call in Sanford) or 282-1535, ext. 327 or twells@journaltribune.com.
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